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Don’t tell me what to do…

Most people don’t like to be told what to do. In the coaching and counseling industry, it’s tempting to give advice, while active listening is far more important. That’s why you will find, here on this website, various articles and tools to help you find the answers to your questions yourself.

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Don't tell me what to do...

There are times, I feel a bit frustrated by rules which tell me what I can and cannot do. However, often those rules are in place for not only my best interest, but also for that of our society. Like during the current global pandemic, it is crucial to follow the mandatory guidelines of our governments. When it comes down to choosing a lifestyle in general, that is something nobody should have to advise you about.

Core Needs

As human beings we have basic needs: fire, water, food, clothing and shelter. All other needs depend on you as an individual. That’s why I state: what’s right for me may not be right for you. Core needs are suitable to your uniqueness, to your unique situation, to your unique environment. 

Connect to Yourself is about diving into your root. Who are you, what do you want, what are your beliefs. How do your thoughts influence your emotions. Reflecting regularly on your different life areas, your main values. What are your individual needs at core level. In short: Core Connection.

Connect to Yourself

Everything on my website I created with the intend to inspire you to Connect to Life, to Others, to Yourself. Connecting on a global scale myself, researching the answers to the questions we all have and sharing these, is one of my ways to contribute to our world.

Not here to tell you what to do 😉

That’s why you will find, here on this website, various articles and tools to help you find the answers to your questions yourself. Per example, my article Boost Your Soul or maybe my personal Philosophy is helpful to you. Or you can watch a short video below, to discover your main values.

Explore my virtual home, be inspired to Connect. In case you could use a listening ear because you seem to be stuck, feel free to Connect wit me. Not to tell you what to do; to help you find YOUR answer yourself. 

Connection to Life and Others is important: Don’t underestimate the importance of Core Connection ; -)

Discover you main values !

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Patty Wolters

What’s right for me may not be right for you!

You are and will remain responsible for your own health, your own well-being, your own environment.

When in doubt about your physical and / or mental health, about your life, about specific food choices… A doctor, specialist, dietitian, nutritionist, therapist, or other caregiver may remove your doubts.

Inspire each other...

6 Responses

  1. Sometimes I get confused as well, like when people start shouting they don’t want to be labelled, and the next day there’s more labels invented. Sometimes I don’t know what to do or say because I fear I might insult someone with my words, even if I don’t mean to.

    Nowadays, life sometimes feels so difficult if you want to go through it peacefully.

    1. That’s why it is important to know your main values. Go about life, from a place of kindness and it is possible to be true to yourself and genuine. Create the peace you want and the people who are similar minded will automatically be attracted to your peace 😉 Have a kind and peaceful weekend, dear Samantha. And as always, thanks for staying connected! XxX

  2. Patty, I’ve decided everyone can do what they want to do. None of us need a life guide, per se, you know what I mean? I think our guide is always within us, and like you’ve said in your comment above, like attracts like, according to who/where you are at the moment <3

  3. Being and staying true to myself… for me there’s no other way… But hé… I’m human as well so sometimes it’s so hard to say nothing (or think nothing :-)) and just let it be. Hope your still doing well Patty xx

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Let us stop trying to convince one and another there is only one way to live. Instead, let us empower each other to find and live the lifestyle suitable to our uniqueness.
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