In the previous post I shared my latest idea to strive for Optimal Connection together with you, my dear readers. Let’s dive deeper into what Optimal Connection is about and if it might be a process you would like to implement too…
Foundation
As human beings, we do our best to survive, evolve and Connect. In order to be able do so, we need a stable foundation. Basic needs (like food plus water, a shelter, warmth, clothing) we all have, in order to feel comfortable and safe. During the modern times we live in; sanitation, education, healthcare, internet and money have also become requirements.
The moment we have this established we will search for ways to grow, to evolve. As social beings, we will also look for those we would like to invite in our inner circle. The relationships with other living creatures, to build meaningful Connections.
Optimal Connections
Such Connections are up to you and me. Creating the right Life Connections, Soul Connections or Core Connections, suitable to our uniqueness. Hence, the reason I do not believe in ‘one approach fits all’. Depending on the circumstances you are in, the needs you have, the skills you developed, etc., you will have to work yourself on those areas that need to be improved.
The goal is to achieve Optimal Connections in every area of (your) life. Health, Finance, Career, Intelligence, Spirituality, Relationships, Kids/Pets are for instance topics to consider.
Overall, Optimal Connection is about Quality of Life. Striving to be the best version of yourself and the most meaningful life in your opinion.
Questions to answer
Besides the above, we also have different, personal and thus very unique beliefs and dreams. What do you believe to be true? What are the visions for yourself, about yourself, in and about life? What do you want and not want? Are there basic needs not met yet? Which area of life needs to be prioritized?
The most important question to ask each time: Why?
Why do you believe that? For what purpose do you have that vision for yourself? Why is it a need, or a wish? And so on. It can also be wise to ask again, after answering the first time your own question, WHY ?
Of course, the basic needs are for obvious reasons. All other wants are very personal. Having written down all this myself, in my personal Vision for my Life book, I can honestly tell you it will be provide so much clarity. Maybe even more crucial: you’ll have something to lean on during challenging times. Because in that notebook, or file on your laptop, you can read what is important to YOU.
Accountability
Furthermore, you can read it as often as you want. Check to see if you are still in line with your own visions. Striving for the Optimal Connections you are dreaming of. A way to hold yourself accountable.
Now, if you’re a bit like me, you might need more to hold yourself accountable. A mentor, a skilled helper, a beloved one can be an accountability partner. I have such Connections too. In addition, I decided to share parts of my personal process here, @ my virtual home.
Right, I think I did enough explaining in part one and two together. Time to start implementing. That’s for another post. I hope you feel inspired, at least intrigued ; -)
Feel free to Connect in the comments to hold yourself accountable, ask questions, or to inspire me and Beautiful Souls visiting my virtual home. As always, you can also reach out to me personally.
Let’s strive for Optimal Connection together!
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