Reflect to Connect

Online Tools

As a multidisciplinary skilled helper I aim to provide you online tools, guiding you to find the answers to YOUR questions YOURSELF.

Online Connection

Can be meaningful too. Stay Connected via the comment sections, online programs or email.

Online Tools

Reflect to Connect

Life is not always easy, it can be harsh at times and also connections can be difficult to make and maintain. Whether you need an improved connection with yourself, with someone or something else, with the world around you: Only YOU can decide if a connection is worthwhile pursuing. Read the content, answer the questions: Reflect to Connect. Coming Soon!

Embrace Your Darkness

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Discover your main values!

Boost your to-do list

Be Inspired

Depression: You are not alone!

To bring awareness to this subject, but especially for all you dear Beautiful Souls who are feeling depressed, I’ve created this compilation. To remind you, you are not alone. Depending on the level of the depression you are going through, there are various ways to climb out of the dark valley, within you find yourself captured.

Connect to Life

Searching for the best suitable lifestyle can get very confusing. Should we give up all modern technologies, possibilities, ideas and views and go back to the ancient way of living? Or should we ditch all the wisdom our ancestors gathered and taught us? Meat, eggs and other products made of animals are malicious? Or are vegetarians wicked? Do we all need to be slim and go to a fitness center each day? Is Science trustworthy, or do we all need to become herbalists? So many questions, so many views...

Soul Connection

Life is an ongoing process, change inevitable and the perfect way does not exist. So let us stop trying to convince one and another there is only one way to live. Instead, let us empower each other to find and live the lifestyle suitable to our uniqueness. Acknowledging and embracing our differences, using them as strength to build meaningful connections and a world in which we can all thrive...

Core Connection

Connecting to Life and to Others, starts with the Connection to Yourself. It’s what I call Core Connection. Awareness of who you are, what you want in life, reflecting upon your purpose here on this earth, is important to create a meaningful existence. Don’t underestimate the importance of Core Connection...

Be You. Who else can you be?!

Be You. Who else can you be?! As human beings, we possess a natural need to belong and therefore I believe, it is important to acknowledging each other. However, it is equally important to acknowledge yourself. Asking self-reflective questions regarding various areas of life, your identity, values, etc. will lead to a better understanding of oneself...

Embrace positives AND limitations

Embrace both positives and limitations is so important. Limiting characteristics, beliefs, thoughts, influences can hold us back. Embracing those too by understanding which are limiting and why they hold us back will help take back control. To Connect to Life, Others, Yourself...

Trust. A Core Key.

Trust is a Core Key. To build a solid foundation for life in general, meaningful relationships and most of all to enable yourself to be you. Without trusting your own knowledge, values, principles often result in feeling overwhelmed, anxious and questioning yourself all the time. It will keep you from living to your full potential. This level of lack of trust might even lead to depression, or even worse...

common questions

Sometimes, reading magazines, books and articles, listening to podcasts and watching videos doesn’t seem to lead you to where you want to be. High cost, shame, lack of time, information too generic, or you feel overwhelmed by your own emotions. Seeking help seems to be too big of a leap to take and you remain stuck. That’s why I offer tools on my website enabling you to find the answers to YOUR questions YOURSELF. Acknowledging your uniqueness plus the human connection we all need.
Of course, you are free to connect with me in case you could use additional guidance.

You decide! Maybe you need to watch a video twice or take more time to ponder over a question. It’s really up to you how much time you want to spend on a tool. If there is a time limit; this will be clearly indicated with the specific tool.

Confidentiality is sacred to me. So yes, connecting with me privately: absolutely! Most tools, however, are accessible for everyone who visits this website. Make sure, if you want to keep the answers you find private, not to insert them in any of the comment sections.

It depends on the tool of your choice. Until the end of the year 2020 all tools will be free.

Do you realize only you* and thus nobody else is responsible for you? Your emotions, behavior, life… Everything you are and do is a choice. Even not deciding is a choice. Does my content, my approach, make sense in any way? That is for you to decide ;- )

* Depending on where you live. In general, from the age of 18.

Follow the instructions provided by the tool of your interest. Should something unhoped-for not work, please do reach out to me! You can connect with me via email: contact @

Always! Send an email to contact @ and I will respond within 48 hours. 

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“Patty is a highly empathic helper who puts a special emphasis on actively listening to the client in order to understand the issue. Through my sessions with Patty, I’ve never felt judged or misunderstood. She gave me ample space to express whatever was in my mind, which she skillfully summarized back to me. Her guidance helped me see things from a much wider perspective, which provided much clarity in my train of thoughts and she helped me work around my issues and move into the direction I wanted to go. Working with Patty is always a pleasure, even when we work on more complex or tough topics. I can only recommend her.”
D. from France.

“Your dedication to connection is inspiring Patty, and kudos for your work encouraging others on the path. Your ability and willingness to offer acknowledgment to others is a true gift of spreading love and makes this world a better place indeed. I’m grateful to you!”
D. from USA.

“Thank you for your listening ear and help me view my thoughts and issues from different perspectives”.
A. from Africa.