by Patty Wolters

My mission is to inspire to Connect.

To Life, To Others, To Yourself.


As long as I can remember, I’ve been philosophizing about the why humans do what they do. I believe Connection, besides surviving, is our most important goal. To Life, to Others, to Yourself.

We are able to build meaningful connections...

Our natural instincts in combination with our consciousness are key to our ability to thrive in modern society. Our main purpose in life is survival: acquiring our basic needs, based on our core value in combination with our individual main values, will lead to a meaningful life…

The perfect way does not exist and difference is human beings’ strength. At the same time, relying on our unified core value – integrity – will lead to acceptance and thus harmony. We know we know: human being human…

Connect to Life, to Others, to Yourself

Let us stop trying to convince one and another there is only one way to live.
Instead, let us empower each other to find and live the lifestyle suitable to our uniqueness.
Acknowledging and embracing our differences, using them as strength to build meaningful connections.


Over a decade, I write and create, developing my virtual home into what it is today.
Connecting on a global scale, aiming to inspire readers to Connect.
To Life, to Others, to Yourself.

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Don’t tell me what to do…

Most people don’t like to be told what to do. In the coaching and counseling industry, it’s tempting to give advice, while active listening is far more important. That’s why you will find, here on this website, various articles and tools to help you find the answers to your questions yourself.

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Won’t Cry – Soul Music

Besides being thought provoking or a mood booster, musicians often also write about their own learned lessons in life. This weeks’ Soul Music choice is a good reminder that some things just don’t work…

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Unshakeable confidence

Regularly, I go through my own older posts. Jeeeez, I’ve created and written a lot this past decade. Also a good reminder for myself, I learned a lot. Although, I still question myself at times, I do have some unshakeable main values. Unshakeable confidence in some areas, in some not so much…

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Sign ‘O’ the Times – Soul Music

Music is not only a mood booster, it can also be provocative. Many musicians write lyrics to provoke you to think deeper about matters in society. This week’s Soul Music choice, does just that…

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About Patty

I am a compassionate researcher, philosopher, blogger, skilled helper. Passionately connecting (off- and online) with people on a global scale, for the purpose to exchange knowledge, experiences and perspectives.

My personal building stones are the wisdom of our ancestors and of nature. In addition, the knowledge and technology of the 21st century.

Over a decade, I write and create, developing my virtual home into what it is today. 

My mission is to inspire to Connect. To Life, to Others, to Yourself.

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