Be The Master Of Your Life

Support to Be(come) The Master Of Your Life

No matter our background, upbringing, current situation, gender, age or belief-system, we all question ourselves at times. You may find yourself in a dark place, or you feel stuck in just one of the areas of your life; finding the answers to your questions can be quite challenging.

Life is an ongoing process, change inevitable
and the perfect way does not exist.

We are all perfect in our own way and never done learning and growing. We all need a listening ear every now and then. Confirmation you’re not crazy, support and encouragement. Someone to connect with, providing you a safe place to share your concerns without condemning you. A fellow human being, understanding you don’t always want to burden the people in your inner circle.

Since everyone is unique, your questions are too.

I believe that a connection between people should be based on integrity and equality. Even if you currently don’t believe it, you ARE the Master Of Your Life. Via my website I aim to provide you the listening ear you’ve been searching for. Based on personal experience and gained guidance skills, I provide articles enabling you to find the answers to your questions, yourself.

In addition, I hope the variety of content I publish inspires you to Connect with Life, to take (back) control and to

Sometimes, however, reading books and articles, listening to podcasts and watching videos doesn’t seem to lead you towards happiness.  Costs, shame, lack of time, overwhelmed with all the contradicting information or emotions… Seeking help seems to be too big of a leap to take and you remain stuck. That’s why I offer support through email, enabling you to find the answers to your questions yourself.

Connect with me in case:

You are stuck and can’t find the answers yourself.
Ready to take back control and
Be The Master of Your Life.

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Building stones I lean on:

I am a compassionate researcher, philosopher, blogger, skilled helper. Passionately connecting (off- and online) with people on a global scale, for the purpose to exchange knowledge, experiences and perspectives.
My personal building stones are the wisdom of our ancestors and of nature. In addition, the knowledge and technology of the 21st century. By sharing these building blocks and offering support through my website, I aim to inspire my fellow Human Beings to Connect.

No certificate in the world guarantees a person is skilled. I believe certificates are acknowledgements of time spent improving relevant knowledge. Practice and experience are KEY. Hence, my preference for person-centered approaches in life and study.
To serve you best, I keep expanding my personal building stones and am a professional member of the Achology Academy.


“Patty is a highly empathic helper who puts a special emphasis on actively listening to the client in order to understand the issue.
Through my sessions with Patty, I’ve never felt judged or misunderstood. She gave me ample space to express whatever was in my mind, which she skillfully summarized back to me. Her guidance helped me see things from a much wider perspective, which provided much clarity in my train of thoughts and she helped me work around my issues and move into the direction I wanted to go.
Working with Patty is always a pleasure, even when we work on more complex or tough topics. I can only recommend her.”
May 17, 2019 – D. from France.

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