Using the words of Slim Shady (Eminem): Looks who’s back, back again… Patty’s back, go tell a friend. Seriously, it’s time. Time to get out of my self-imposed summer hibernation, and I’ll start by sharing some personal brain threads…
Brain Threads August 2024
2023 and the first half of 2024 have been tough on a personal level. Almost losing your soulmate twice (once due to a stupid accident while deconstructing a shed and the other time discovering a congenital heart problem) is something no-one can prepare you for.
It takes not much imagination to understand the emotions we have been going through. My way to attempt to stay strong has been distracting myself via studying, joining communities, blogging on and off, and as always Connecting globally.
However, during my extended absence from my virtual home I realized once again; sometimes it’s best to reduce activities to the absolute necessities and just rest. Giving myself the time and space to observe, reflect, recover, reenergize.
I already knew life can be harsh, expectations will not be met, change is inevitable.
Living on our globe for over five decades, it however still shocks me to observe how superficial matters divide people, titles are more important as truth and these days the term ‘authenticity’ misused so often, too often, influencing people to believe in misleading solutions.
Ancient wisdom is as important as modern science. Religion, traditions, tribes, schools, communities, companies, organizations and even families become dangerous the moment questioning the status quo is killed. Metaphorically, literally.
In a world where leaders have forgotten human rights, power makes money and money makes wars, resulting in children dying, it is therefore hard not to succumb to fatalism. Blaming, shaming, complaining seem to have become human traits. Our inherited most important asset, integrity, appears to be traded for greed and false promises of much needed improvements.
Life is not a niche, we do not have to put ourselves in boxes. Choices previous made are not set in stone. Advice given does not have to be implemented. Being compassionate, kind and empathetic does not mean you also allow yourself to be manipulated, bullied or abused.
It is ok to expect to be treated with respect.
Disconnect from those who, and from that what, no longer align with your values.
As much as we want to, the perfect way does not exist. We all are hypocrites at times, we all forget the power of personal responsibility regularly, we all make mistakes throughout our life.
The only one who can give live meaning is you.
Thrive on your terms.
PS: Those who were aware of my/our personal challenges, my gratitude for the listening ears and regular check-ins.
4 Responses
One of my favourite songs is Ringo’s It Don’t Come Easy. It’s just as relevant now as when he first released it. I’m lucky enough to have seen him sing it while being in the front row. You have paid your dues, Patty. I hope you and your hubby can rest easy now.
I’m fortunate to have interaction with key decision makers. Sometimes, it’s successful, other times, it’s not. Finding one who is genuine, or willing to make a difference is not easy. Politics skews so much. Even when you ask them not to play politics on key issues – yes, we are that direct here, it falls on deaf ears – but maybe, one day…
It’s always good to see you here and sharing thoughts and views, that in my opinion, do make a difference 😊
I’ve read on your virtual home about the struggles you encounter with decision makers. Unfortunately, the messages in many songs from the past will most likely always stay relevant.
Even a tiny step forward in the right direction is a step forward…so yes, let’s keep hope alive ; -)
ThanX for the compliment, dear Sean!
Wonderful to see you back Patty! Thought provoking musings…look forward to more ❤️
Good to be back ; -) ThanX dear Sukeshi!